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Country: United States
State: West Virginia
Metro: Huntington
Birthday: 6/9/1983
Gender: Female


Interests: faith. friends. family. writing. social justice. travel. movies. books.
Expertise: impracticality. writing. idealism. procrastination. amusing others. eating. speaking horrid Chinese.


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Thursday, December 22, 2005

All right, kidderoos, you should surf on over to my other blog ( http://blogs.bootsnall.com/brwneyedgirl ).  I'm trying to decide where I should go during my free vacation time, and I'm letting people give me their comments.  So go!  And comment!  It's exciting!

You know you want to!


Monday, November 07, 2005

So I just got news tonight that two students from our school have been hit by cars in the past month.  One of them is one of my students--fortunately, they don't think she's hurt too badly.  But apparently, the other student that was hit in a hit-and-run accident is so badly hurt that they don't think that she'll walk again.  Life is crazy, and it's odd how I haven't heard about this before now.  Then again, apparently one year, there were four students on our 6,000 student campus that died--a couple of suicides, they think, and some just strange accidents--slipping and falling in the bathroom, that sort of thing.  And life just goes on around here.  I guess these kids are used to tragedy.

If you pray, say a prayer for these students that were hurt.


Friday, October 28, 2005

At the beginning of the week, I was kind of feeling sucky about being in China in general, but it's gone now.  Sometimes when everyone stares at me and says in Chinese that I'm a foreigner or have a big nose or don't understand, I just get frustrated.  It's not like this at the school or even around the school.  (The lady that sells me my apples and oranges tells me, "Xiexie, laoshi.  Man man zou," which means, "Thank you, teacher.  Go safely.")

My suckiness was in full blast by Tuesday morning, when I was crying a bit at the general weirdness of it all and feeling frustrated because I didn't know if I was teaching ANYONE ANYTHING.  But then I went to class, and I had my amazing group of kids, and they made me feel completely better.  These students graduated from real high schools--my other students only graduated from the vocational high school at Jiangyou Normal--and took the college entrance exam, so they're bright and know how to study.

I had some of these students that came to my house tonight, along with Eunice's student Future, who I have conversations about love and culture and beauty ideals and Chinese festivals and all these cool things with.  One of my students, Minnie, who has close to the best English that I've heard from any student here and writes papers that are more correct than some I've read in the writing lab, talked to me in my library and asked me if I was lonely in China.  I said, yes, a little bit, but that I have lots of students that visit.  Her face lit up, and she said that her classmates wanted to invite me to eat with them around the time of American Christmas--that they didn't want me to be lonely here.  And then she said, "All of us love and admire you very much."

Tonight, Future asked me what I was doing tomorrow, and I said that I was thinking about going to Xi Shan Gongyuan (West Mountain Park).  Future said that I shouldn't go alone, that that wasn't good, and then proceeded to clean up the remains of the pomelo I fed the ladies who visited, put them in the trash can, and straighten up my coffee table.  "If you don't have anyone to go with, I'll go with you," she said.

As she put the papers on my coffee table in a neat pile, I told her that I didn't want her to go if she was busy.

"You are my friend, you are my sister," she told me.  "All week I study.  This weekend I want to relaxation with you."

So tomorrow I am going to sleep late, and then I am probably going to relaxation with Future.  I can't think of anything I'd rather do.


Sunday, October 16, 2005

Wow.  Mid-October.  It's quickly becoming autumn here, but no changing of colors.  My students "ooh" and "aah" over pictures of fall leaves from home.  I do miss them.  This weekend, though, I went with other department teachers to a pretty valley called Puzhagou and got to do some good hikes on trails, play with little girls who speak pretty good English, eat lamb and wild chicken roasted on a spit over a fire, get to know (well, figuratively, because of the language gap) some of my colleagues, and try to sleep through the din of an all-night mah jong marathon right outside my door.

Students and fellow teachers (Americans Eunice and Hugh and also fellow Chinese teachers) are becoming my friends.  I'm learning to live my life here, buying eggs at the corner, using smelly squat toilets, shopping at the supermarket, adapting American foods to what's available here, learning Chinese, adjusting to things been announced at the last minute, trying to graciously accept everyone's sometimes suffocating concern for my well-being and trying to prevent me from doing "dangerous" things (like going to the supermarket on the bus by myself in broad daylight) or "being lonely" (like watching a movie by myself in my apartment in the evening), drying my clothes on bamboo rods on my balcony, and changing my outfits every two or three days instead of every day (this I particularly like--less hassle).

I had a pretty wonderful conversation with Josh the other day.  He calls me weekly, with a phone card that costs less than 5 cents per minute.  We talked about life and future and how cool it would be to take six months off of life and just see the world--go to Russia and Greece and India and some African countries together.  It'll definitely be nice to see him when he comes for about 10 days after Christmas.  I like being in love with him.

I miss you, friends--Houghton people going through another semester, Tommy getting ready to do his art show, my brother starting a new major and doing various musical things, Lara and the IHOPers with your wittiness, college friends with your humor and memories.

I've been reading The Good Earth by Pearl S. Buck and Telling Secrets by Frederick Buechner.  They're both good, the first in a spare sort of way and the second in a non-chronological, beautifully written sort of way.  I love Buechner, especially his memoirs.

Well.  Read my China blog if you want more.  I will whet your appetite:

Firsts of the past six weeks:

1) Eaten cow foot, pig intestine, pig ear, and the guts of something.  (Ew.)  Eaten red bean ice cream, steamed buns, and sweet & salty dried fruit peel.  (Okay.) Eaten sweet glutinous rice ball soup, dry-fried green beans, water spinach, stir-fried cabbage, lotus root, Sichuan barbeque, fish-flavored eggplant, chrysanthemum tea, Chinese breads, and scads of other things.  (Wonderful.)

2) Ridden a horse on a foot-wide path up about a 45 or 50 degree incline with a several thousand-foot drop right beside me.

3) Learned to use chopsticks (called "kuaizi") well.

4) Took buses by myself in China.

5) Bought eggs, fruit, and veggies on the street.

6) Taught six classes full of 30-55 Chinese college students.

7) Worshiped in a church that speaks another language.

8) Learned how to read about 150 VERY EASY Chinese characters.

9) Learned how to speak and understand short sentences.

10) Gone seven weeks without being really homesick.

11) Had a dry hair wash, scalp massage, and a good straightening job.

12) Eaten red bean ice cream (okay but not that good).

13) Gone on a eight-day-long vacation for less than U.S. $125.

14) Made a friend who spoke less than 10 words of English and hung out with her for two days at a national park.

15) Stayed in the guesthouse of a Tibetan Buddhist monk/lama and a family.  Ate dinner with them.

16) Signed autographs unknowingly for very excited middle-schoolers.


Monday, September 19, 2005

It is night here in western China, and I'm sitting in my apartment, listening to the rain fall heavily outside.  It's beautiful.  I'm also eating a mooncake (food people eat near the Mid-Autumn Festival, which was yesterday) and drinking tea out of a mug that was a gift from a student.  The mug says "FBAISE" (which is, to my knowledge, not a word in any language)and has a picture of a strawberry on it.

I like my new life.

Read my other blog if you'd like more. :)



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